Add DM privacy indicators and relay hint publishing

docs/nostr-event-schemas.md

@@ -151,6 +151,7 @@ import { updateWatchHistoryListWithDefaultClient } from "./nostrWatchHistoryFaca
 | NIP-71 video (`NOTE_TYPES.NIP71_VIDEO`) | `21` | `['title', <title>]`, optional `['published_at', <unix seconds>]`, optional `['alt', <text>]`, repeated `['imeta', ...]` entries describing NIP-92 media variants, optional `['duration', <seconds>]`, repeated `['text-track', <url>, <kind>, <language>]`, optional `['content-warning', <reason>]`, repeated `['segment', <start>, <end>, <title>, <thumbnail>]`, repeated hashtags `['t', <tag>]`, repeated participants `['p', <pubkey>, <relay?>]`, repeated references `['r', <url>]` | Plain text summary carried in the content field. Publishing is gated by the `FEATURE_PUBLISH_NIP71` runtime flag while the rollout stabilizes. |
 | NIP-71 short video (`NOTE_TYPES.NIP71_SHORT_VIDEO`) | `22` | Same as `NOTE_TYPES.NIP71_VIDEO`; the kind differentiates short-form presentations. | Plain text summary; gated by `FEATURE_PUBLISH_NIP71`. |
 | Relay list (`NOTE_TYPES.RELAY_LIST`) | `10002` | Repeating `['r', <relay url>]` tags, optionally with a marker of `'read'` or `'write'` to scope the relay; marker omitted for read/write relays | Empty content |
+| DM relay hints (`NOTE_TYPES.DM_RELAY_LIST`) | `10050` | Repeating `['relay', <relay url>]` tags to advertise delivery relays for NIP-17 gift-wrapped DMs | Empty content |
 | View counter (`NOTE_TYPES.VIEW_EVENT`) | `WATCH_HISTORY_KIND` (default `30079`) | Canonical tag set: `['t','view']`, a pointer tag (`['e', <eventId>]` or `['a', <address>]`), and a stable dedupe tag `['d', <view identifier>]`, with optional `['session','true']` when a session actor signs; schema overrides may append extra tags. `['video', ...]` is supported for legacy overrides only. | Optional plaintext message |
 | Watch history month (`NOTE_TYPES.WATCH_HISTORY_INDEX`) | `WATCH_HISTORY_KIND` (default `30079`) | Replaceable list tag `['d', `${WATCH_HISTORY_LIST_IDENTIFIER}:<YYYY-MM>`]` with optional `['month', <YYYY-MM>]` marker plus schema append tags; no chunk pointers required. | JSON payload `{ version, month: 'YYYY-MM', items: [{ id: <eventId\|address>, watched_at?: <unix seconds> }] }` |
 | Subscription list (`NOTE_TYPES.SUBSCRIPTION_LIST`) | `30000` | `['d', 'subscriptions']` | NIP-04/NIP-44 encrypted JSON array of NIP-51 follow-set tuples (e.g., `[['p', <hex>], …]`) |